#3. She rules the relationship like a dictator.
She does not know the meaning of “compromise.” Everything is done her way or she blows up and calls you selfish. She won’t end a discussion or argument until you do what she says.
#4. Her calendar is too busy to pencil you in.
Neither you nor her should give up seeing your friends and do the things that make you happy. The problem is that she is not willing to adjust her schedule to make time for the two of you. No one is ever too busy to stop spending time together.